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 Anonymous Asked: hey. i really like this guy&i think he likes me aswell but the problem is the lack of communication. we're both shy to go up&talk to each other...he stares at me a lot but i want him to come up to me&just start a conversation with me. personally, i dont think im making enough effort but its because for me it should be the boy who does all the effort but i dont want him to think that im not interested but i really dont know how to talk to him or even flirt with him, i dont know what to say to him My answer: A relationship doesn’t just suddenly appear. It takes a lot of work, and despite what most girls think, it’s not just the guy’s job to talk first. When you date someone, you want an equal relationship, and that doesn’t happen when it’s only the guy making an effort. In reality, you both need to make an effort, or your relationship doesn’t stand a chance. Don’t be afraid to talk to him yourself. Just start up a conversation about anything, and keep it going from there. Usually a neutral subject is best to start with, like a certain class you share, homework you had last night, or a movie you recently saw. Anything that you know enough about to keep the conversation interesting. Don’t try to flirt with him until you’re actually talking daily. It’s best to let him get to know you first, and then let a relationship spring from there.
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