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 Anonymous Asked: When it's the right time to kiss someone? My answer:
No, I’m kidding. I don’t think there is a “right” time to kiss someone. Some people kiss on their first dates, some people wait for months. The right time is when you both feel ready. Same goes with everything in a relationship. Don’t worry about other people’s idea of social expectations. As long as you and your significant other are happy, then it’s not going to matter. My 2nd advice video. I answered my most commonly asked question. I plan to make another video soon, so if you have suggestions or ideas, please message me! :) Anonymous Asked: I really like this guy. We just started dating and well he seems more in to the relationship then i am. Tbh i really like him i just dont really show it too much cause i am not like that and i am scared i am gonna act stupid around him and mess up. So i am usually pretty quieet but i think he misses the old loud and weird me. And idk what to do. I also havent had my first kiss and idk how to make a move and everyone keeps asking when we're gonna kiss. Idk what to do :/ My answer: It’s okay not to be super affectionate. Everyone is different, and as long as he knows how you feel, then it shouldn’t matter. I wouldn’t worry about acting stupid, he started to like you when you were “loud and wierd” so there is nothing you can do to mess it up. Don’t be afraid to be yourself, because that’s the person he likes. Your first kiss will happen when you both are ready. It doesn’t matter if your friends are pressuring you to make a move. It’s nobody’s business when you have your first kiss. It can happen tomorrow, or six months from now, but that’s your decision (and your boyfriend’s) and not up to your friends to decide. It’s your relationship, not theirs. Anonymous Asked: What are some good gifts to get your boyfriend for Christmas ??? c: My answer: Something really personal! If he has a favorite sports team, get him a sweatshirt with their name on it. If he likes the same kind of music as you, mix him a great cd. Or even better, get him tickets to his favorite band. If you have inside jokes, getting him a ton of gifts that relate to each joke. And of course, guys love food. You could get him a ton of his favorite candy, along with something special related to a memory you two share. It’s more about the thought and love that goes into the gift, not the amount you spend on it. Anonymous Asked: How can you tell if a guy likes you? My answer: Every single guy is different. In general though: -Does he pay special attention to you? -Tease you? (In a playful way) -Find excuses to be with you? -Do you catch him looking at you? -Does he try to impress you? -Seem shy around you? -Remember details from conversations you’ve had? Like I said, every guy is different, but above is pretty typical behavior. Sometimes it’s good to get an outsider’s opinion. Ask a mutual friend if he acts different around you, or if they notice him paying extra attention to you. What can seem really confusing to you is often super obvious to everyone else. I’m sorry I haven’t answered any advice recently. I’m really, really behind, and I’m just really stressed with school right now. I promise I’m not purposely ignoring anyone, and I feel really bad for taking so long to answer. I’m going to try to get caught up sometime this weekend if I don’t have too much work, and until then, thank you all so much for being so patient! :) I’ve finally finished and uploaded my first advice video! There are quick links in the description, if you don’t want to watch the whole thing (Although it’s only 3 minutes) I would love feedback from you guys, and hopefully everyone likes it! :) I’m trying to decide if I should start advice videos or not. I get a ton of advice questions everyday, so I’m thinking I could pick 4 or 5 to be featured in a weekly video. I’ve had this idea for awhile, but I haven’t really considered actually doing it until now. I’d love some feedback from you guys! :) I’M HOME! I had an awesome vacation! Advice is open again, I might post some pictures from the trip later tonight, and I will be reblogging and active again! :) 
I’m going to Nantucket for the next three weeks, and I won’t have any internet. I’ve queued posts, so my blog won’t be completely dead. But I won’t be posting as much, so I apologize in advance. I’ll be back August 20th, with lots and lots of pictures! :) I’m sorry for the lack of posts, and not answering advice messages. I’m in New England for the summer, visiting family and I have limited internet access. I’m trying to post when I can, and I’ll be restarting advice in late/mid August. Happy 4th of July! Anonymous Asked: There's this guy at my school that I've known for about five years, and I very recently started thinking about him like a lot and I think he might feel that way about me too, but I want to know if him and I should go out- I get really shy around him now, but I feel like I shouldn't since we're really good friends, but I don't know what to do :/ My answer: Just talk to him the way you did when you were just friends. It’s hard, but try not to think of him as the guy you like, but instead think of him as the best friend you’ve had for five years. Remember, if he likes you, it’s because of who you were around him when you two were just friends. So really, you can’t say anything wrong, and you don’t have to be anyone but yourself to impress him. Anonymous Asked: ok, so i like this guy, and we have hung out a few times, and i think he likes me, but im not sure, he calls me cute, and always jokes around with me, but he always talks to my friends instead of me when we are in a group.... and when we talk in person hes a lot more talkative and nice and flirty, but when we text, its like talking to a wall. and i dont know if i should tell him if i like him.... HELP! My answer: Don’t be worried if he’s bad at texting. Some people just aren’t good texters. What’s important is that he’s interesting in person. That’s where the relationship matters. If he’s flirty one on one, it sounds like he likes you. In a group, it’s easier to talk to someone you don’t like than the person you do, because people are around to scrutinize your every move. If you aren’t sure what to do, just ask him who he likes. It implies you are interested, it gives him an opportunity to tell you, and it saves the situation from becoming awkward if he likes someone else. Anonymous Asked: So I've been kind of feeling upset because i feel like all my boyfriend has been asking for was sex. So i told him and he said sorry and that he didn't mean that,i know he cares about me we've been together for 14 months. This was last week So yesterday he came over and then we went to and ice cream shop so he gave me his wallet to pay and his phone and said he needed to use the bathroom. His friend texted him saying "Ay, man! Yeah get some." and before that he had said "We're fucking." My answer: Well it sort of sounds like he’s getting pressure from his friends. If he didn’t bring up the topic the day you went to get ice cream, then chances are he’s bluffing, so his friends don’t think he’s a wimp. If he continues to pressure you, then you might want to rethink your relationship with him. Because your boyfriend should always respect your boundaries, regardless of how long you’ve been dating. But unless he really brings it up in a serious conversation, just forget about the text. It probably didn’t mean much, just a way to get his friends off his back. |
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